She was Kate's close friend and drinking partner when they both attended SUNY New Paltz. She once poured fondue in Xen's shoe. She doesn't attach well to boys, preferring short bouts of excited monogamy before she leaves the boy in question, but she really seems innocent in it, so we cannot fault her.
She has dated both Xen and Tony, though the latter much more recently. (Incidentally, the same could be said for Kate.) She frequently reminds people that "Virginia is for lovers." Xen's mother said Virginia always reminded her of a 400 lbs girl who lost the weight, except that Virginia has always been thin. She is an artist in the photographic milieu whose choice of subject is personal hygiene. No, really.
She currently lives in a fishing village in Alaska where she is very popular, as you would imagine of an unattached twentysomething who isn't averse to sex in a secluded and icebound state.